Forgiveness

"Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong"

Mahatma Gandhi ..

I believe that is very much the truth.. Many people just look at the surface of it..
What Gandhi actually meant was, only weak people who are afraid to be hurt again are the ones that cant forgive.. Because it takes a huge amount of strength (mentally) to actually forgive someone for the mistakes that has happened.

I have been plagued with problems for the past week or so.. Everything seems to be out of order and I have been suffering too... I personally hate it when someone misunderstands me.. Ever since I was a kid, I absolutely hated it when I get blamed for something that I didnt do..

I am not a saint who takes blame for others for no reason.. I am a normal human being too.. Having said that, many people forget the fact that I also do in fact have something called FEELINGS.. I dont know what has gotten into their mind.. They simply assume that I am mad/angry/sad/etc etc.. While the fact is, I was simply, NORMAL.. I didnt have any reason to be happy, or sad..

Maybe its just the way how I look when I'm normal.. Most people think I'm either snobbish or angry/upset when I am just normal... Im not crazy to walk around with a pointless smile on my face.. Sure thing I do smile at people... That doesnt mean I have to do so to everyone all the time.. Lol... Come on.. Be practical..

Well... I dont really care if you ASSUME that Im mad/sad till you wanna ignore me.. I just hope you dont leave an impression that you just look for me when you need something.. I forgive people very quickly, as I find it hard to keep vengeance in my heart.. Im not the type of person who tries to seek revenge.. Please.. I am NOT.. I wasnt raised that way either..

Personally, I dont force people.. I try my best to convince them, but if after all the talking and they still choose not to trust me.. I'll just leave it. To me, its pointless to spend so much trying to convince someone who doesnt trust you..

I found a quote from Gandhi Ji that truly opened my eyes that I would like to share.. I hope it opens your eyes too (All readers, not anyone specific please.. Lol )

"Whenever you have truth it must be given with love, or the message and the messenger will be rejected"
~Mahatma Gandhi~

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